What does it mean to be a "good" person? Throughout history, the term has been used to describe individuals of moral character, those who act in the best interests of others, or simply those who align with our personal beliefs and values. But as society evolves, so does our understanding of who a good person is. This article delves into the complexities of this age-old question, drawing from historical, contemporary, and religious perspectives. In the first part of this two-part article, I seek to shed light on this pressing question: Who is a good person? And is anyone really good?
The term "good" is ubiquitous in our daily conversations. We often use it to express admiration or approval, such as when we say someone comes from a "good family" or is a "good person. "They did a good job." "I want to marry a good (wo)man". But beneath this simple adjective lie a myriad of interpretations and beliefs shaped by personal experiences, cultural backgrounds, and historical events.
Merriam-Webster defines "good" as having a favourable character or tendency and being reliable. However, our personal definitions often stem from our unique experiences and frames of reference. For instance, while Adolf Hitler is widely condemned for his heinous crimes against humanity, there are those who, based on their perspectives or experiences, might view him differently.
A glance at Africa's political history offers further insight. Leaders like Kwame Nkrumah of Ghana, Nelson Mandela of South Africa, and Robert Mugabe of Zimbabwe elicit varied reactions based on individual experiences and knowledge. Similarly, Western leaders like Tony Blair and Donald Trump have been both praised and criticised, depending on one's viewpoint and the impact of their policies.
John Dewey, a prominent American philosopher and educational reformer of the early 20th century, posited that goodness is dynamic. He believed that a
"A good man is the man who, no matter how morally unworthy he has been, is moving to become better."
This perspective suggests that our understanding of goodness can evolve over time. Contrary to the belief that goodness is an inherent, unchanging quality, Dewey proposed that it is dynamic and evolving. He argued that a person's moral character isn't solely defined by their past actions but by their continuous efforts to better themselves. This perspective challenges the traditional notion of a fixed moral compass and introduces the idea that every individual has the potential for redemption and growth. It's a hopeful and humanistic view, suggesting that our moral journey is a continuous process of learning, reflection, and self-improvement.
Further, religious texts also gives perspective of a good person. The Bible, for instance, provides several definitions:
Proverbs 13:22 (NLT) states, "Good people leave an inheritance to their grandchildren,"
suggesting that a good individual thinks of future generations, ensuring the well-being of future generations. This perspective aligns with many cultures worldwide, where the well-being of descendants is a paramount concern. In Ecclesiastes 2:26, it says,
"For God gives wisdom and knowledge and joy to a man who is good in His sight; but to the sinner, He gives the work of gathering and collecting, that he may give to him who is good before God.
This text emphasises the importance of a right standing with God, associating goodness with divine approval. In this context, a person's moral standing isn't just about their actions towards fellow humans but also their spiritual alignment with GOD. This interpretation underscores the importance of faith and spirituality in defining one's moral character.
The parable of the Good Samaritan in Mark 10:25–37 illustrates that goodness can be seen in acts of compassion and kindness, even towards strangers. Here, goodness is exemplified not by one's status, beliefs, or lineage but by their actions. The Samaritan, despite cultural and religious differences, showcases compassion and kindness, emphasising that true goodness transcends boundaries and is rooted in empathy and selfless action.
In essence, the nature of goodness is multifaceted and shaped by philosophical insights and religious teachings. Whether viewed as an evolving trait or defined by spiritual alignment and compassionate actions, the pursuit of goodness remains a universal human endeavour.
In conclusion, in the vast tapestry of human experience, the concept of 'goodness' remains both elusive and deeply personal. As we navigate our globalised world, it's essential to approach the idea of 'good' with an open heart and a willingness to understand diverse perspectives. While the definition of a 'good' person might vary across cultures, religions, and individual experiences, the quest for understanding and empathy remains Universal. As we ponder the true essence of goodness, let us also strive to embody it, recognising that our actions, more than our words, will define our legacy. In this ever-evolving journey of life, may we continually seek to understand, appreciate, and elevate the goodness that resides in us all.
This fluidity of perception prompts a deeper question, which I'll explore in my next piece:
"Can anyone truly be universally good?"
As you reflect on this, I wish you a contemplative weekend. May the Lord grant us wisdom, Amen!
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